Both Can Be Happy (with a green door)

Let's disposing of the sermons meet head on, face to face. To discuss what's happening. Do we even know? Solomon of Ecclesiastes noticed all men meet the same end. The good the bad the rich the poor the wise the foolish, etc. What if I see but a single situation? Birth life death. What difference does it make to notice the similarity of the singularity? The black hole.

Let's study it out. Not in books. In observing the force of nature all around us. Same fate. I will tell now only that my experience is that the simple observation daily of the phenomenon by an individual like me when confronted with a proposition that there are important differences holds me silent barely long enough for the other being to decide that I am okay as I am. Both of us can then be happy that the door is green.

Should I argue all night, and I have, I awaken at dawn to witness daylight.